When we get nervous, we made excuses. We make excuses to not love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just busy: we are too crazy at work, we’re always driving someone somewhere, or we’re spending time with our spouse. We also use excuses like “I wanna lose 15 lbs first!” and “I just don’t have the money right now!” I wanted to write this to show you all that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let make show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself.”
It’s also important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you aren’t going to be able to take care of anyone else, which makes sense but is actually harder said than done! Sometimes I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break and breathe for a minute!”
At a boudoir session you are able to breathe and love yourself for a few hours. You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it having an amazing time and getting glammed up for once!
“I’m not where I want to be weight-wise.”
I don’t fit in the media’s idea of the perfect size.”
Did you know that the body type portrayed in media and advertising as the ideal only represents about 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT!
I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you’ve heard me say it before), but WHY do you have to be certain size to LOVE yourself? Why do you have to agree with a stranger’s messed up idea of a perfect body to love your body? Why are you comparing your body and size to everyone else when no two women are the same? Think of all the energy you’ll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others, and stop worry about what other people will think about how you look.
I think it’s amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so you can be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir session to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you lose those 15 lbs to celebrate how far you’ve come!
Having a boudoir session now will show you where your real beauty really comes from and this will lift such a huge mental weight!
“I never fell sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir session must not be for me.”
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir session.
We often lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and is absolutely normal and ok! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir session done to put that spark back in us. I can show you you still have that spark inside you, and it might just reignite a spark between you and your significant other as well!
Another think to remember is you don’t have to wear super sexy or revealing clothing. If you feel like this doesn’t show your personality, there are so many other outfit ideas, and classy, modest lingerie. If you need ideas, I am more than happy to talk with you about them during your phone consultation!
“A boudoir session is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now.”
Yes, a boudoir session IS an investment. It’s also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence! We offer payment plans for just this reason.
In order to book your session, there is a session retainer due first, then we’ll set up payments to make this a breeze for you! If you have any questions about payments, be sure to ask us!
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